Good morning!!! Okay, let's start this day off like this... WHY do good men (still) finish last??? What I mean is... why is it when a woman (some not all) has a good man (works, loyal, respectful, spoils you, etc...) she would rather have the "bad boy", you know the one that beats her ass, cheats, verbally abuses her, y'all know that one, right!?
I think it's because some women feel like when a man hits her, cusses her ass out, the apologizes with flowers & gift in 'ish, that's love! Ahhhh, can't you feel the love!? Puh-Lease!!! Some women NEED that drama in their lives, without it their life would be boring, right? So, when they have a sweet man that loves to live drama free, oh no no, that's not enough for them, doesn't give them that feeling of love that they feel when he knocks they asses over the head with his fist balled up & makes them see stars!! Now that's just what I think. Why do y'all think some women want to have the "wife beater" (not the shirt) rather than the sweetheart (like the candy)? C'mon, why y'all think some women are like that???
i think women like that just has a really low self esteem and feels as if they can't do better. LOVE isn't suppose to hurt and for the women that do love the daily drama in their lives, then that's on them. As for the "good men", well there aren't too many around anymore.. sorry to say!
ReplyDeleteGood point, Naidene! That is true, a lot of the good ones are taken, BUT there are good men out there & I don't think any woman should "settle" because they think all the good men are gone, ya know?
ReplyDeleteYup! I know, they're really hard to find though.. Hope you find you're good man soon, DawniCakes!!!
ReplyDeleteThank you! He'll come soon!
ReplyDeleteOk have you ever heard of that term opposites attract?? Well this is the reason why. our pheromones; which are our cognitive signals that are sent to the brain to trigger our natural response to sex and what we see as sexy influence us in making our decisions on what we find sexy and attractive.Almost 99% of the time its for the things that we are not. Just like a brother and sister most likely they will have the same type of qualities in terms of their behaviors and personality. Which we all know as incest also creates and unhealthy situation for reproduction.
ReplyDeleteSo naturally our human minds are attracted to what will produce health and strength.
So your are attracted things that your are not!!! So.... If you are a sensitive,loving,understanding, and caring Woman. You will be attracted to Coldhearted,unsensitive,selfish man. Women dont seem to realize this to later on in their lives, and that why good guys don get the girl.
So dont worry its just natural.Understand the qualities that are gonna make you happy and go for men who have them.
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ReplyDeleteTaino25, you make a very good point, BUT you can't use the term "opposites attract" with everybody, just because someone's sensitive, loving, understanding, & caring does NOT mean that they are going to be attracted to someone total opposite! Now that term may apply to some, but not all. I, myself am attracted to men who are sweet (like me) or loving & caring (like me). I would love to & plan to marry a man that has all the same interest as me...I wouldn't mind someone just like me!!! So the "opposites attract" theory is a good one, but like I said it doesn't apply to all!!!!
ReplyDeleteTaino... I see your point in the sense that opposites attract... I think it's healthy for people to counteract with each other and not be identical to each other... For example if one person happens to possess stubborn characteristics... It's healthy for the other person to be laid back...Although you may have similar interests and morals...If there are two people who are exactly the same in every aspect that can cause a lot of conflict...
ReplyDeleteI do also believe there can be a huge plethora of reasons why I woman may choose to be with a man who abuses her. She may have been abused as a child, gone through a traumatic and abusive relationship, had self esteem problems... And SO much more... I see your point... But pheromones aren't the one explanation...
Totally agrees, Shal!!!!
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