Can He Really Change? (For The Ladies)

Question: Do you think it's possible for a man to change & become faithful after always being unfaithful?

So, you see the question, lets hear your opinions!

I personally think it depends on the person. I won't say a man can't change because everybody can change, the question is does he really want to change? If a man has always gotten away with doing his thing even if you find out about it then the chances are, he's going to continue to do whatever it is that you allow him to do.

Example: If he cheats & you find out, he apologizes, you forgive him & he does it again & he apologizes & you forgive him, then the chances are he will probably keep doing it, I mean why would he change if he knows he can have his cake & eat a big 'ol slice right in your face too?

Anybody (man or woman) will only do what you allow them to do. I can speak from personal experience. My ex cheated a few times and I stayed until one day I decided he is really not what I needed him to be for me! I wanted more from a man, wanted to be treated like a queen, I had to learn to love me first. Once I let his ass go, he then decided he wanted to send me roses, get a job & be everything I wanted him to be now that I don't want his ass, but then it was too late, I was over him. Trust me ladies when you're over a man you will know and until then you will stay & deal with the BS!